Yes, we were judging all along. Perhaps you attempted to extinguish this immediate reaction, but there was the feeling, the sense instilled within you, this unavoidable idea of the place you are newly acquainted with. You could not escape your perception, and that is one of the things we should first acknowledge in determining why decor and ornamentation within our surroundings for all sorts of moments whether it be the very homes we inhabit or for weddings, birthdays, holidays, or dinners.
Take a moment to be more aware of the latent effect you experience when entering a room that is well taken care of or vice versa, upon realizing this “energy”, it becomes more and more evident what certain “small” things can do, such as including fragrant flowers into your space. In fact, the difference is great.