Although unfashionable today, the sort of pragmatic love born out of reason and duty to shared goals - and by which sexual attraction takes a back seat in favor of personal qualities and compatibilities - is not only anchored on a sense of mutual benefit but also on companionship, dependability, and trust. How we relate to and with companions with which we dont share physical attraction, someone youve separated or divorced (and co-parenting maybe,) and/or past lovers, teaches us and each other of boundless and infinite love, which makes of them mirrors of our best self and so conduits of change and growth. [1]
THE TRIED & TRUE ABOUT GIVING YOUR EX FLOWERS ON VALENTINE'S DAYThe undeniable beauty and rich symbolism of flowers speak for a large spectrum of human emotions with a degree of precision and nuance that no other medium can, [2] and so for love that speaks not only of playfulness and romance, but for love out of maturity and reason, of a common interest in making both your long term goals work, for which there are flower plenty fun options too.
Which flower types and colors best express love born out of shared common goals?
As the days get longer and the fields sprout to life with colorful blooms, as the winter blues start to fade, we once more enliven with a renewed sense of hope and bounty; and so too comes Valentines Day, when we celebrate the madness brought by romantic love. [3] Far from being timeless and universal though, romantic love is in fact a modern construct. By overly preoccupying ourselves with playfulness and romance, we risk neglecting other types of love that especially in the long term may be more healing and fulfilling. Like the kind of love that can be professed for and by someone you are now with but not romantically involved, youve separated or divorced and/or past lovers but you now love because of the personal qualities and the compatibilities you share in making your common goals work.
Why not let your ex know about your love for them too on Valentines Day then?.
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Citations & Links:
[1] See: Psychology Today These Are the 7 Types of Love
[2] See: Wikipedia Language Of Flowers
[3] See: Britannica.com Valentines Day (Social Custom)